OK, roller coaster in full effect. W goes home and I text her thanks for cleaning up kids mess (180 for me I believe as I didn't let her earlier comment get me into a argument/discussion or shut down and not communicate with her which is what I've done in the past if I was angry) and she texts back thanks for being such a wonderful dad.

I haven't heard anything like this in a while and although I appreciated it and said "that is sweet, thank you" I have been mind reading and analyzing this to see if its a good sign about her noticing I'm becoming a better man or if I should just take it at face value and maybe it means nothing as far as our relationship goes. And then I am fearful that she thinks us being seperated is working out better than when she was living here.

I will keep being the best father/man I can be regardless of what she thinks but I still am concerned/curious as to what's going on in that troubled mind of hers??

Never a dull moment in the life of a LBH!!


Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley