Who are these clairvoiants and how do they know the chances she'll speak to you again?

Friends usually hate to see you hurting and want to see your D over and done with as soon as possible so you can be happy again.

You have to listen to your own voice to know when it's time to move on. I don't know if 7 weeks is that long. My H hasn't left but he's consistently said he wants to be divorced and it's been 6 months.

I think the experts here will need to know more about what you're doing to work on you, to improve what you can. To "get a life" and to address the things she didn't like about you. Have you read DB or DR?

What do you think went wrong in your marriage that caused her to leave?

I'm so sorry this has happened to you, but you've come to a good place to get advice.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.