Thanks a lot for that "something the cat dragged in" picture in my mind. I had on track pants and a local tv channel t-shirt when H came home this evening. But, I did put on lipstick!!

It does sound like your H is coming back to reality a bit, compared to before. So, he thought it all out as to how a friendship with ow would go? You mean you didn't find it all perfectly logical? It's going to be back and forth between sanity and not. You know when my H saw other guys looking at me he was taken aback, too. He was with me one time when a guy my sister dated back when we were teenagers asked me where I was back then.

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