just floating...need direction!

[abbey1989]

So...I pulled up building permit public records (i know i know) and H sure enough called in OW's last inspection. It passed. bummer. This was on 11/15. 2 weeks ago!!!

I printed out that page and put it in his in basket. I want him to KNOW that I KNOW. I have been dealing with this for 3 years. Seriously. Right now I am feeling pretty numb. I do not deserve this.

Tonight he lied....caught him in it....he said he was stopping by my parents house on a way to a business meeting to drop of something that my dad needed to fix my son's car. But then...5 minutes later....my parents showed up at our house headed out to dinner. I said...OH...H is headed to your house to drop of the parts you need and my dad looked puzzled (like really puzzled) and said he spoke with him 30 minutes ago and he had told H that he had everything. When parents left...I called H and I said "oh just wanted to save you a trip to my parent's house...my dad has the parts he needs. he said he talked to you 30 minutes ago." H had told me he was dropping by parts but then when I called him he said, oh no, I was just dropping by to kill time. OK I'm not a complete moron. I know what I heard. Then he called me back a bunch of times and I didn't answer. He knows he was caught in his lie. Whatever.

Tonight I'm beyond being sad. Just pretty tired. I'm sure you know how it goes.

Did I mention that he is currently not working....and working on OW's house for free? I'm going to try to act excited when he sees the page that I left on his chair and say "Hey...have we billed her yet?"