I'm David, and as you can see, I registered here a long time ago. For some reason I felt compelled to come back, and maybe it's to talk to you. The answer is simple: you fight for your family, but you don't know how. The first step would be to read the Divorce Remedy, the first chapter of which is on this board. Then buy the book and read the rest of it. The next thing I might suggest is the Retrouvaille program. Look into it. Third, I would suggest that you find your spiritual self and establish a relationship with God, however you define him. A very important thing to embrace is that this will take TIME, and this process flies in the face of conventional wisdom. You didn't get here in a day, and you won't fix this in a day. Read the book! Back off, give her air (not the cold shoulder, but breathing room) and try to figure what's wrong with YOU, because you're in this together, but YOU is all you can fix.
God Bless,
David
The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith
