So I don't recall my w pushing my buttons for about a month or so now or maybe because I was in a better frame of mind and just focusing on myself and not concerning myself w/ what she says or does.
But tonight I get home from the grocery store and she is cooking dinner and she says she is going to do something while I put the groceries away. I say I can do that if she would like to put the groceries away (she has always liked to do this and keep things organized in her way which I could care less about). She says no and then makes a comment that she can't "micro-manage" my life anymore and she also said she gets irritated when she comes back and sees that things are out of place and she needs to relinquish control of these things. All I said was ohhhh kayyy and didn't make any further comment but it really got under my skin.
She has been out of the house for 4 months and I've been doing an unbelievable job keeping things in order and their is absolutely no way she doesn't see that but it felt like a body blow when she hit me with that one. I know she is having a difficult time right now with various things so I am going to not try to take it personally but it really pissed me off.
