Day two of no contact I am contemplating reaching out tomorrow afternoon with a quick, friendly phone call. Up to this point, I have been contacting him daily (either text or quick call). My DB coach didn't say to stop completely, just to cut back. Is tomorrow a good idea or should I wait longer. I don't want him to think I am upset or avoiding him, but I also don't want to pursue. What do you think?
M:12yr 06/11:IDLYA 07/11:Moves out 08/11:PA disc(began in May) 09/11:Moves w OW 10/11:Breaks up w OW;gets apt 11&12/11: Touchngo w me 1/12: Comes home-PA resumes 2/12: PA disc; PA ends Today: Piecing
I am contemplating reaching out tomorrow afternoon with a quick, friendly phone call. Up to this point, I have been contacting him daily (either text or quick call). My DB coach didn't say to stop completely, just to cut back. Is tomorrow a good idea or should I wait longer. I don't want him to think I am upset or avoiding him, but I also don't want to pursue. What do you think?
