Keep it up! I'm seeing a few of the same small glimmers of improvement and I think we need to stay encouraged and positive (without getting too excited). I keep trying to remember too how much "nicer" H is being to me than he was in mid-summer. If you think of how negative he's been, it's huge that he's complimenting and noticing you. Men are not like women...they don't just compliment each other as a natural part of conversation!

(although, my H is still in a PA...so I can't get too excited about anything until that is over...although, he is still in our house)


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012