Her point was that it is almost me trying to control him spending time with the kids. He needs to know that if his choice is to move out and be single that he will ahve to work at having a relationship with them.
Going to assume that the second setnace is how YOU feel and think...cause otherwise it sounds like your therapist contradicted herself big time.
2 points to be made from the second sentance if it is YOUR way of thinking.
1 - How much money are you spending on this therapist so you can ignore her? Cause I was thinking of buying a steak and throwing it out myself. Was curious which you think is more foolish?
2 - "He need to..."
: )
Willing to bet there are TONS of things "he needs to..."
but...what do "you need to..." ? That's a better subject, and one that won't make you want to push your head through a brick wall, cause the things you need to...(do) YOU actually have control over.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
