AJ... patience is the big call of the day. Often, you'll say small things that somehow penetrate, when you least expect it.

You may have to play some hardball with her, if/when the OM comes back into the picture. BUT... it's something that others (Including me) have used in the past very effectively. So much so, that although I feared it the first time, like crazy. This time, I'm actually wishing I could fast forward to the "dark" separation period. Amazing what reality DOES to these folks when they're faced with their own choices head on.

Chin up, you're doing fine smile

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.