When my first husband and I split up. I didn't think we could be friends because he so many hurtful things to me. We have been divorced 6 1/2 years now and he is still my best friend. It took approx 2 years to get there, but we did. He has been a great friend to me while I am going through my separation with my second husband. I don't see myself getting back with my first husband, why ruin a good friendship. I wouldn't give that up for nothing.