Confronted spouse...now he wont come home

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H called to talk to the kids this morning and then had my D10 hand me the phone (so, I was off the hook for having to reach out to him today!)

We own a ski condo that H has had since the early 1990's. We now have an opportunity to buy a share in the condo next door...which would be nice for allowing us to invite other families up there with us. I was very supportive of the idea and we talked through it like we've talked through key decisions in the past (we have a similar, analytical approach).

Towards the end, H said, "but what do you think given our situation?" I said, "we'll need to think about it". That's all I said...no pressure, no complaints.

One of the things H said was that now that I've started making more friends in our neighborhood (one of my 180/GALs)...we would have more options for inviting people to join us there. Small victory?!