Oh by the way, here's food for thought I found when reading posts in the other forum I post in....
Someone said that she thinks of the OW this way:
"if I think of OW as "the devil's tool", then it's not HER doing wrong.... "satan" has exploited HER weakness of character and my husband's weakness of character and been able to sneak in and TAKE THEM OVER to use for evil purposes..... "
I also think of my H's OW this way, and offer a prayer for her to see the right path and for her salvation as well....one canot be angry when one is praying for someone to be saved....
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
