This btw, was after a very emotional convo I mentioned from last night. He STILL wants to have sole custody of his daughter. He professes to love this OW, but would take away custody?
He confessed some stuff to me last night that makes it very clear that the only chance that child has of having a decent happy family life... is with him... and ME. But he also confessed that he doesn't deserve me... that he screwed up and hurt me, and he thinks that asking that of me is too much. Said I deserved better than him.
Promptly told him... I made that promise to you 8 weeks into this pregnancy. Nothing has changed for me now. Other than more resolve to have her with us full time.
He called me his angel... again. H Said, I need to do this my way and then hugged me, kissed me and said: This is going to be a very long year, you realize I have to spend more time with her in order to spend time with my daughter.
I said, you think she doesn't want a relationship with you... I'm telling you she wants more... all of you...her other kids, your daughter AND you...to live happily ever after. H: No F'G way. I have no intention of living with her, or her other kids. I reiterated: You ARE playing with fire, you realize.
He cuddled up with me when we went to bed, and fell asleep in each other's arms.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
