DBing against OW...?????

[mishka422]

Oh goodness....ITM, we should record all of them and play them back with everyone in the same room so they can hear how NOT UNIQUE they are. It's like a script isn't it? They all say the same BS things because they are justifying their "ME, ME, ME" existence. WAH....I've lived my whole life being there for everyone else and now it's MY time....WAH.....you abused me and made me feel inferior for years and years (even though no one ever talked about it, spoke up for themselves, or made any move to make improvements).....WAH....WAH...WAH

Honestly, the only thing you can do is step away, stop interacting with him except in case of extreme emergency regarding your child, and pretend he doesn't exist. Seriously, the man you married doesn't exist. This is an alien being that acts like a spoiled child and only thinks of themselves and their circumstances. The vows they made mean ZERO to them now, the fact that their own child is being harmed by all of their nonsense is irrelevant to them.

Now that you realize how immature and selfish he is, hopefully it will help spur you forward.

I'm confused about something through. He wants a D, you push it along because he's at a standstill then he freaks about money and decides to throw more money at the D? WTH? How stupid is that? Does he give you an innordinate amount of money as it stands right now? Is it far over the normal formula?