I'm suggesting that filing and trust really don't have a direct relationship.

I see what you are saying.

We will always have a relationship rather we are married or not. I would to stay married to him.

When he had an emotional affair last year and moved out for 3 wks, I lied to myself. I told myself that I forgave him, but I didn't. Over a year later, I am at peace with that now. I think being separated 5 months has helped that. Now I have to deal with the fact he is sleeping with someone else. Once I can accept that, I have work on healing from that blow. I really don't have a choice in the matter when it comes to the OW.

Is that say true, Once a cheater always a cheater....


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)