So I have been going back and forth about what to do with regards to filing. Do I keep going forward or do I wait until after the holidays. He is going home for Christmas and New Years.
We have been getting along a lot better. H is going out of his way to talk to me about the kids and random stuff. Do I think he has changed his mind, no. I realize he is going to see OW while he is there. So part of me feels foolish but I just don't want to make it any harder than it is. I don't want to file and he is scrambling around with trying to respond before he goes out of town. But then the other part of me feels stupid about waiting to make his life easier. I have been going back and forth for days. I signed the papers on Nov 17 but so far he hasn't been served. Anyway I called the lawyer and asked them to put it on hold until after the holidays. So it has been filed but they aren't going to serve him until I call back.
