I see what you are saying about putting cart before the horse, but even now when we talk I am having a hard time believing what he is saying.

I guess, I am trying to decide if I will be able to trust him again or if I can't then I should just file for a divorce.

H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)