Thanks for the feeback all, I greatly appreciate it. I like the calendar idea and will try to incorporate that.

However, now I am confused as to what exactly I'm looking for in trying new techniques. Better emotional connection with w or just the simple fact of her noticing changes (which her reaction could be positive or negative)?? My goal is to bring her closer and see the new me and want to be with the new me because SHE wants to so should I look for subtle signs of her becoming curious about my life/changes or signs of her moving towards me?

I think I'm in overanalyze mode. Thanks again all!!


Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley