I forgot one important piece and still questioning whether I handled it well or not. Last night a male friend of ours called me, and I missed the call. He had also texted me the day before. It is nothing funny, he needed advice.
When H found out that he called, he said "why does he text you, and not me. Don't you find that odd"
I said "not really, it is no different than J and R texting you" and he shrugged and said "i guess"
We have 2 female friends that tend to call or text him more than me, they have work things in common so I never really thought much of it.
But now that the shoe is on the other foot, it bothers him. He would have a fit if I ever suggested the same, and tell me that I don't trust him.