Your disgust in your H is quite understandable. We do have to look at them without rose colored glasses. And sometimes the picture isn't pretty. They *ARE* weak and acting like a spoiled 6 year old. You question if you ever actually KNEW the man you were married to. You question your entire marriage. It feels like you've been living a lie. Most if not all of us here have also gone through those feelings.

Thus why going dark IS for you. Staying in their spin cycle isn't healthy for you. He's still blaming you for his brain going to mush, sadly.

Abbey

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.