BeingMe, not to sound like a romantic movie, but sometimes it doesn't matter if YOU are through with romance, but if IT is through with you. I think that's one of the wonders of being human; being hit by love when you least expect it.
I am sincere in my own feeling of Stick A Fork In Me, I'm Done; but would still welcome the overwhelming feeling of loving and being loved by someone. That just could not/would not include the estate of marriage.
All of us, especially women I believe, are somehow hardwired so that marriage makes us completely and utterly vulnerable. 'Let the man lead' sort of thing. We emotionallly invest in a way many men simply do not or can't. And we suffer for it.
Now, I have bounced back fairly well. I'm not flying off to Rome for the weekend, but I wasn't doing that before. But, the Wall to my heart and soul is firmly sealed up. Not a crack in her. Any R I have at this point does not and could not include my heart and soul.
