Ahhh....I'd stay out of the Christmas gift thing. Neither help nor hinder, but don't sway him one way or the other. Be interesting to see what the H does with it....and then how it plays out. He needs to know what these situations would be like.
25mlc- I understand you feel bad for the other kids, but I see this about Abbey and her M. AND she doesn't have any control over what they do or don't get for Christmas.
Hope I'm making sense, but my MO would be to let this play out.
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