In addition, my h expressed his fears at my gal activities and how I have changed. he said he felt like I was punishing him by being gone a few nights a week. I'm gone no more than 2 - 3 times.
I thought that this was what he wanted, a wife that is not so clingy, a strong person who does things on her own.
As I said before, at first the GAL was hard getting used to... it was a fake it till you make it at first. But now I really enjoy getting away and doing things for me. I don't want that to end.