"I'm really considering looking into this. If I could talk with an L in my immediate area, that would be superb. Also, I've been itching to sit down with a T or C for a long time. I visited on some of my W's sessions a few years back and went to my own C sessions last year, and I really enjoyed them. Helps to spill out my guts to someone in confidence."

I think this is a great idea and you should do it as soon as you can. Be sure to determine if the C is trained in Solution Focused Brief Therapy and is marriage friendly. Finding a therapist/counselor that meets this criteria is going to be important to your healing and survival of this crisis you are facing!

Good luck!

Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife