My wife is in full on affair mode and could care less about the rest of the world. The Halloween pics showed up on her FB and everyone saw them and told me. Yesterday night a pic shows up of her with her new boyfriend at the college football game here. All friends and family were beside themselves and one friend's W that used to be best friends with my W could not resist commenting on the pic and other stuff. The pic was not suppose to be on her FB but the guy she is cheating with accidentally tag her in the photo so it posted it to her wall. My W defriended pretty much everyone else that cares and blocked her own mother. My W has lied to so many people about so many things it was only a matter of time before this happened. My W continues to pursue many guys and dating the new guy exclusively. I will be visiting my lawyer tomorrow to start the papers as I'm done with this situation. My W has left a wake of destruction that she has no idea and she has no intention of coming back. I could never trust her again. and nether could pretty much anyone else since she has made this so public on her own. She has made herself look so bad it is ridiculous.

This forum has helped me a lot and I have become a better father and person through this process. The DB/DR process is not for the other person it is for you. I have learned this the hard way many times but I have learned it. I will continue posting as things progress. Thanks for all your help.


Me:29
W:28
S:2
M: 5 years
Bomb: 7-26-11
Separated: 8-20-11
EA w/ multiple OMs
W filed 1/2012