But while he is out of town, it seems like LRT would be the same as going dark? I guess maybe tomorrow morning I could send him a casual, friendly text. I feel like it's too proactive to be calling him unless I have a reason to. It's sad, but he's been gone so much that there isn't much I need to tell him anymore.

I think I'm really upset about his vacation next weekend. It's eating me up inside. I was friendly in our last real conversation before he left Sunday night...so I guess I feel like I've left a positive impression...now, letting him be while he's gone is probably the best way to act detached?

Or, do you guys think I should keep up more of a connection? I am suspicious he is with OW tonight because he called the kids after school.

He comes back Saturday night.

I do need to start some hobbies...I just have zero time between and intense job and being the sole parent. I think I need to get a regular babysitter and maybe find a yoga class or something.
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Tamashii, sorry to hear you have been here 6 years...I will read your sitch.


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012