"Sharks and fish can be friends" from Finding Nemo

[AntoniaB]

Just wanted to add: My psych. has said that my final "ties" to XH will sever other than the long-standing love you have for a long-lost relative once I get into a new relationship. I think she's basing this on the fact that she's been a doctor for 36 years and had lots of client experience AND she is also someone who found herself divorced unexpectedly after 2 decades-ish and years later, remarried happily and is still married.

And yet with as much as I get myself out of the house and meeting people and putting myself out there for online dating, it just ain't happening. The only advice I get from people is to move out of DE because there is no one for my "type" here ;-) With total job security, I'd be leaving an income to find a man. Ain't happening.

Now you two are making me want a drink ;-)