Confronted spouse...now he wont come home

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Thanks. I'm really struggling this week...I feel like I'm obsessing too much. I keep coming on to this website and googling stuff about affairs. I think I want answers to a problem that doesn't have an answer and is out of my control. My IC said obsession is your mind trying to control a situation that it can't control.

I'm not reaching out to him while he is gone. He texted this morning and I just sent back a simple response. Now, nothing from him all day.

I just need to keep believing in the LRT. I do know I have it easier in a way that he is gone and I don't need to see him every day.

Off to take the kids out to dinner. I'm struggling a bit to really GAL lately between work being busy and the three kids. But, H doesn't need to know that.