I went to church on Sunday and the minister suggested a relationship exercise for troubled times. Each day when you wake up ask:

1) What am I getting from this relationship?
2) What am I giving to this relationship?
3) What am I doing in this relationship to contribute difficulty?

Note that the obvious fourth question is missing.

Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015