I will give her the gift from D and it is her choice to accept it or not. If she does, great. If not I will not be offended, but will hold on to it for her until decides she wants it. My guess is that is that she may feel guilty, but she needs to deal with that.
I will continue to honor Mother's Day, her birthday, and Christmas with gifts from our D and expect nothing in return. I never was big on receiving gifts anyway and never expect gifts.
I feel better now that I have come to a solution of what to do. Thank you!
M:35 W:33 M: 5 yrs. Daughter: 2 yr .7/11/10 D Final: 8/7/12