DBing against OW...?????

[imthemom]

thanks guys...i have been thinking all day about what to say...and I agree with 25, it would have to be short to the point and firm...i just question if I can pull it off this week what with the state of mind ive been in...i think im just gonna see how it goes and if I have to, wait until I feel stronger ..cus today im not feeling that so much.

Ill have to check 25 but i dont think i ever said the OW bothered me more then his drinking..but the state of mind ive been in the last 3 months i guess its possible...but NOT TRUE!!
and we have so many friggen Cs involved in this im not sure who you are asking about ...S14 has his own C which he see alone...we talk for a few minutes before each appt but its for S14. He knows S14 well as he has been seing him for over 2 years. He got us through the cutting situation. Dad had not showed up to those appts since the summer other then the one time he did and told the C that he was divorceing me (unbenonste to me) and the C told S14 without realizing that no one had spoken to him yet.
I have my own C that i see and then we have the one we see for co parenting...who kinda goes back and forth between calling him on his behavior and coddling him ....its frustrating to say the least!!
I dont know...i dont feel strong enough to deliever tonight...i have my moments but im not feeling that tonight is it...maybe ill have a mood swing and it will just come out...i just really want it to be a calm and reasonable statement.