Well, he just called (about 10 min after he left) asking why I don't want him to come over in the morning so I was able to explain to him that I moved because we separated and all the rest. He asked if I thought we could work on it and I told him I have no will or strength in me to work on anything as I feel deeply betrayed, don't trust him and don't want to be with him as I feel like he would not be able to love me as he should. He said he thinks otherwise and that this whole situation was a good lesson. We didn't really get anywhere though, he said its not something we should discuss on the phone so we left it at that.
Me: 28 H: 40 Together: 10yrs Married: 6 yrs OW, ILYBNIL: june15/ 2011 I moved out/ ow moved in: nov 2nd/2011 H and ow no longer live together: may 1/2012