when we had our first "this is the end" issue it was me going to leave her unless she did certain things which i explained. in my case, she won't explain it and thinks i should know. i was willing to tell her what it would take to restore my trust and yet she is unwilling to do the same. *sigh*
Is it possible that she doesn't know what it will take, she may not know exactly what she needs from you yet. It may be some time before you get to that point. Try to be patient if you can. I know that it is much easier said than done.
