Well yes it does take strength to set boundaries. We went to eat and did not talk about us. He did come over after and again wanted to hang out but I shortly asked him to leave. He wasn't happy and while getting ready to go he said he'd bring breakfast in the morning. I told him I won't have time to have breakfast with him tomorrow as I have things to do.. He kept asking what things and said he'd come anyways.. I kept telling him to not come and he kept saying hell come. If he does show up with breakfast I will take the time to explain to him that I moved for a reason and not for him to come over when he likes, hopefully he'll understand and I'll make him leave after as I have to study for my exam which is this Saturday, I really don't have time to sit around with him and watch tv.
Me: 28 H: 40 Together: 10yrs Married: 6 yrs OW, ILYBNIL: june15/ 2011 I moved out/ ow moved in: nov 2nd/2011 H and ow no longer live together: may 1/2012