If he had given up you would know, because he wouldn't seek you out. He still looks for physical affection from you, he still calls / texts you. He still has feelings for you. He's messed up inside, not you.
I still believe he's trying to manipulate and control you. Your best bet is not to play that game.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015