If he had given up you would know, because he wouldn't seek you out. He still looks for physical affection from you, he still calls / texts you. He still has feelings for you. He's messed up inside, not you.

I still believe he's trying to manipulate and control you. Your best bet is not to play that game.

Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015