What is he getting from these relationships that he's not getting from his own family? My H too liked to be the knight in shining armor for people (always attractive women, never men or unattractive women). He chose to marry a strong independent partner but he then spends his time on stray kittens. I don't know the answer either but it's a question you should be asking. What emotional needs is he seeking out this attention for, and is he willing to try to get those needs met within your marriage?


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.