Hi Gunny thanks for checking in. Today I am at work and doing ok so far. It is really nice out so I'm about to take a brisk walk. Trying to maintain the weight loss that my stich caused. This morning was great made my D breakfast and she asked me to drive her to school. I really enjoy doing that stuff.

About your W filling for a D. She will need to come to NJ and file. She will need to take many days off and you saw my post that it could take a year. I don't think she will be doing anything any time soon especially if she has a new job.

The advice your DB coach gave is priceless. I have noticed how much more supportive the women are at my group. They guys usually sit quietly and say very little but not the ladies. They tell each other what is happening to them while intensly looking into each others eyes with some light touching. They give each other their phone numbers and make plans to meet in church. They are very differnet than man. Something to think about.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden