I like how you are handling this! Stay strong and don't go back until he does all the things other posters have mentioned. He needs to prove himself to you and he has a long way to go.

It is interesting how much you are seeing him though...doesn't sound like things could be going very well with OW (no surprise).


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012