PA - Confirmed - Blinkers are off.

[NYCPeter]

Starsky - great to hear your story and that you and your W reconciled.


Quick journal.

Not much has happened since the weekend - small signs that make me feel good, W has been giving me a kiss before going to bed and has not been retreating to her side of the bed when I come up to bed.

She's still hiding her iphone at night - who cares - what else is there to come out in the open (unless she is still in contact with OM).

I went out with friends for dinner and drinks last night - I just told my W I would be home late and that I was eating out.
When I got home W asked questions "Did you have a good day", "How was your evening" - she was probing for where I went, I gave short generic responses.

As I said - I think now the A is out in the open she is a little relieved, not that it's changed her mind just something she no longer has to hide.

I'm playing soccer tonight and drinks afterwards.