H sent me a text message showing our D having a melt down in her car seat. He called me after he dropped her off at daycare. He said she has been like this ever since she woke up this morning. He told me that he could not handle her 5 days a week anymore. Here is our visitation schedule that my lawyer suggested and said it was normal. Every Monday and Tuesday she is with him and every Wednesday and Thursday she is with me and every other friday and weekend we switch. We both will have her 5 days in a row. He wants to come up with another schedule that would suite him more. I told him I thought this is more structured for her. Well, he got p1ss3d with me and hung up. He was the one that walked out on us. I feel like he made this bed now he needs to lay in it. I don't want to change the schedule to suite him because then I feel he is getting his cake and eating it too. So, how can I tell him in a nice way that I did not cause this situation, he did.
Also, I am sick and tired of validating his feelings. Like this weekend when we were talking, everything that came out of his mouth was fault and I validated everything. Even if I felt he was wrong. When will he start taking responsibility for this mess?
