and I am so scared that I will lose my husband forever if I make a mistake.
(((Some Day)))
I don't have time right now b/c I'll be late for work, but I will come back. Don't give your H the impression that you are mad about something or sulled. Pulling back doesn't mean for him to think you're playing some new game with him. But it means that you just stop. (As for pursuing him.) If he wants to move in a little closer to you, that's great, but you've stopped moving either way for now.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
