Has anything been said about the household items being legally separated? You probably don't want that, but it seems she thinks nothing of getting things from her former house. She may have every right, IDK.
Next TM you send, don't sound so pitiful. Don't talk about feelings (yours or hers).
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1.) Do I tell her about it? Even in casual passing?
2.) I'm assuming since I am in LRT that I sure as hell don't invite her
The answer is NO to both questions.
I understand you want her to see you doing things like this, but you can't move on with your life hoping she's watching from her window, or even worse...tell her about it. That usually comes across to the WAW as being so cheesy. It's really a turn off for you to tell her, but if she hears about it elsewhere, then that may spark a little interest.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
