IS I'm sorry sweetie. That must have been extremely scary.
Yes what you said does make sense as does all the responses.
You and your were care about each other. I know it's hard to see that amongst the hurt, anger, selfishness, and the bazillion other feelings... but it's there buried deep.
It effects the both of you. You don't have to validate her choices.. but you can certainly validate some of those feelings.
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M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
