IB have you got some girlfriends you can do a "ladies night" type thing with? I'm not trying to trivialize anything, believe me, but sometimes just spending some time with women outside your realm of difficulty is helpful. I went out tonight with a new friend to the bar she and her friend work at, and her friend was on duty, and we are all single, and we all commiserated, and it rocked. It was just nice to be out with women who don't have men at their beck and call, and that's like, almost all women I know aside from those on this board. It felt like I was "normal" in their world. Maybe you just need a dose of this now and then?
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying