I'm sure he means it.. I mean I could feel and see on him as soon as I moved he changed, he kept calling, wanting to come over.. Yesterday he called me to ask if I thought about what he said. Still I said there is nothing to think about as he's in a serious relationship. (lol)

I know he means it, but Im wondering how he thinks we should go about it.. Let's say I agree to work on it.. In fact while sitting in the burger place he said something like we're already trying to fix our marriage that's why we're there so I said no, we were there because we're hungry smile

What it looks to me now is that he would try with me to work on things while ow is still there. Let's say I agree.. What does he say to her? And let's say it doesn't matter what he says, she leaves, but it would take some serious time and effort to fix us, what if it doesn't go fast for him and ends up going back to ow, or any other hooker out there.. Do I want to put myself in that place again where I'm being lied to and cheated on?

Or what if he wants to try while she's still there comparing us..

I don't know.


Me: 28
H: 40
Together: 10yrs
Married: 6 yrs
OW, ILYBNIL: june15/ 2011
I moved out/ ow moved in: nov 2nd/2011
H and ow no longer live together: may 1/2012