I won't get into a p!ssing match with 25... She is a value to this board.

I will say that DB is about saving yourself. Going outside the box and trying things based on results is fine.

There is no one way.

And all the bold letters and colored words won't change that fact.

25, I would appreciate your not assuming that your way is the ONLY way. If needed, ill bring you a HUGE ladder to get off that soap box your on.

So I tell you Jake, My way worked for me. Almost everything I did was DB. I set boundaries and stuck to them. So I ask you. Was I wrong?

Good luck Jake.


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012