So H has been strangly normal again. We talked today quite a few times. I told him the babysitter was taking him to the museum and he said he didnt think it was a good idea and I held my ground and he said ok. Then we talke about xmas and I offered him to come here and "share" the xmas w/ our son in the morning. He wanted to come at 8 and I said 9. He agreed. His family is still driving me nuts. I heard today that they had made plans t come here and put up all the xmas decorations. I was really hurt by this and I told h that I wanted to put them up too. He sent me a message saying that he would tell his mom to leave the tree undecorated. I replied that I would talk to her myself also but thanks that was nice. When I called my mil I told her why I was hurt and she blew me off saying that she/they were not thinking of me but of their grandmother. I said that's fine but that they should be considerate of the fact that this is my xmas 2 and I also live here. She said she understood but was basicly pretty cold and defensive. She said I was being too sensitive. I expected more from her b/c she and I have been really close. Now I know better I guess. I'm sooo disapointed in that whle family. But at least h is being a human being. He also said today that he had to take me off his insurance. He sounded scared to tell me, like he was really sorry and asking if it was ok. I had to tell him twice it was fine.Weird. Baby steps?
