OT: yes, it was our test. Witnesses etc. MZ: Yes separated, but in constant contact. He bought his own small house in June, about 15 minutes away from her. She gallivants all over the place, and he'll go over and "sit" the 5 kids, stay over night or whatever.
He *loves* her, from what has been pieced together, is that her H truly loves her, and is a decent guy, is good to his kids etc. INCLUDING my H's daughter. If he knows who's it is or even that it's not his. Who knows. That parasite's mouth should spit fire for the amount of lies she spins.
So H comes home, it's so hard not to pump him for why he was talking lawyers ... and why he spit out all this stuff about us shopping for daughter together, meeting her etc. Said we'll go to two diff places together. Sat with me to watch the news and instantly takes my hand and starts to hold it. Not once, but every time I got up to stir dinner... as soon as I sat down, he grabbed my hand to hold hands. WTH?
As I've mentioned to someone on another thread... it's difficult but one has to resist the temptation to DRIVE the break down of their relationship. I've been down this road before. He'll hate her, because... oh surprise, surprise she lied to him about something BIG... had ample opportunity to tell him the truth, but chose not to. He'll of course forgive her, because she'll revert to her tantrum or threat to not let him see daughter, tactics. One teeny-tiny step forward. The hardest thing will be when he starts to defend her again... as early as to'row.
If ONLY they would grow their brains back quickly. Not so, though.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
