REQ: Looking for a thread from a fellow DBer...

[Abbey]

He knows it's not his or... at least I THINK that's the case... either way though... he has ZERO idea that my H is in the picture. These two men hate each other.

I just spent the last 20 mins on the phone with my H... and he was addressing just that.

He caught the OW in a big lie today. Surprise, surprise.

She had told my H that, she had told HER H that there was a paternity test done and we are waiting on results. When I blew in there last week, I threatened to tell her H myself if she didn't. She lied. Said, I'm not going to send him to an insane asylum before Xmas. She lead my H to believe that he KNEW that the test was taken, and was awaiting results. H even said to me... surely he's not that dumb... he has to know that it only takes a week or two to get results. Any dummy could read that on the net. So he has to know we have the results already.

Today,... because my H is having one of his clarity periods,... he's been pressing for more time, and that her H needs to be told. She finally told him... well, I didn't quite tell him that there was a test taken. Only that you had inquired about having one.

His phone call started out with: saw some cute things for daughter today... you and I can go back and get them to'row or Thursday. (Gives me the sizes I wanted to look for cute stuff.)

THEN H starts talking lawyers in the new year. And that's when he told me that she finally confessed that her H doesn't know about the paternity test already done and results in.

I have to wonder... and it was a wonder of my H's... did she really KNOW who the father was? He insisted that he thought by things said by her husband, that he felt it could be his. (the 2 H's had few of their own screaming matches apparently when I was gone.)

Would make sense why she's not told him yet. God only knows what lies this parasite has told her husband. Nothing that comes out of that woman's mouth is the truth.

So... how did I deal with it. Affirmed his feelings, told him I supported him in what he was thinking... and that he had every right to demand more time with his daughter.

Round and round we go....